the phenomenon that will change how you think

try this experiment: today, when you hear a question, don’t bother answering it or rationalizing it.in fact, you’d be hard pressed to find someone who sits on a question, ignores it completely, + doesn’t even begin to formalize an answer to it.due to the phenomenon known as “instinctive elaboration”, your brain is wired to answer a question when…… Continue reading the phenomenon that will change how you think

the blame isn’t on the situation, fam

when something isn’t working out for you, don’t give it more power by encouraging its efforts. change the narrative + you’ll change your life, fam. see, it’s not the circumstance or situation that’s keeping you stagnant.what’s happening is your limited perspective + lack of action that doesn’t allow for your progression. complaining about a thing doesn’t…… Continue reading the blame isn’t on the situation, fam

when the worst happens, this is still available to you

i get it, fam — having someone always pointing out the good in life can at times be annoying AF.  not only does it go against what we’ve been programmed to do in dismal situations, it’s giving “happy go lucky” when the atmosphere is calling for dark + dreary — read the room, optimist! 🗣️today, challenge yourself to…… Continue reading when the worst happens, this is still available to you