you’re waiting for things to change. stop.

stop waiting for things to change + make a change. though we may not have control over the current circumstances or situations, we do have the power to choose differently.be brave,be bold, + be the change you’re looking for.whatever is causing you stress + anxiety, let the obligation you’ve placed on yourself to ‘keep it…… Continue reading you’re waiting for things to change. stop.

when your mind wanders, ask yourself this

“they are being kind — what’s the motive?” “why did it have to rain/snow today?” “what did they mean by that exactly? sounds like a sneak diss” 🤔 “this moment feels too real, too good to be true.” don’t get stuck in your head, fam.moments are to be enjoyed, to be lived in — not overanalyzed. being…… Continue reading when your mind wanders, ask yourself this

the only thing that can hold you back

in this world, only one thing can hold you back, fam: that’s you. you + you alone determine your comings + your goings.it’s you that decides whether you’ll pursue or pass on the opportunity. limitations, expectations, situations — all the things you believe to hold power over you — in the grand scheme of things, don’t matter…… Continue reading the only thing that can hold you back

all achievement happens “in spite of”

those high achievers we tend to idolize are no different than we are, fam. they have fears, they have worries, + they have anxieties, too. so one may wonder:with all the stressors surrounding achieving, how do they have such high achievements under their belt? the answer is more simple than we care to admit.high achievers do…… Continue reading all achievement happens “in spite of”

now this is how you start the week!

get focused! this week’s focus word: consanguinity get hype! let’s affirm the shit out of this week: affirmations for week 50 of 52 i appreciate each person’s unique perspective + individuality. our differences are to be respected + our uniqueness is to be celebrated. community is important to me + i am actively involved in connecting…… Continue reading now this is how you start the week!

here’s what confidence is + what it is not

whatever + wherever you pull your confidence from is your business, fam. it could be from a loved one, from scripture, from nature, from your inner being — idc. idc. idc.  doesn’t matter. what matters is that you carry your confidence with you wherever you go.life will life + without the confidence to move forward, you…… Continue reading here’s what confidence is + what it is not