Author: Phylicia

don’t be surprised if your recollection of past experiences is on hyper alert right now. your past doesn’t mind reminding you how wronged you felt back then.it wants you to remember how tough it was for you when shit didn’t work out.it agrees with you to give in + write off attempting the experience completely.…… Continue reading today feels different because…

compared to what you’ve already accomplished in life, what you’re currently taking on can seem minuscule or even your biggest challenge yet. so stop it. stop comparing where you’ve been to where you are now. release the urge to judge your or others abilities to do hard things based on how great or small a situation may seem to you right now. who are…… Continue reading your biggest challenge yet

you are a person of utmost value, fam. there’s no denying you are cut from the finest cloth + made with tender love + care. every detail of your personality + physical presence is crafted with love.your natural born skills, including your ability to conquer hard things, is what makes you you. even your dreams + aspirations…… Continue reading in the presence of royalty

though many of us find comfort in routine — comfort in knowing what’s next + why something is happening — i challenge you to surprise yourself today. do something exciting + out of the norm! sprinkle a bit of magic into what you’d consider ordinary moments. find out how flexible you are by turning something that you previously…… Continue reading out of the norm

the next time you wonder how much something is worth to you, ask yourself: what am i willing to invest in this experience? when it comes to what’s most important to you, there’s no escaping payment. payment isn’t always monetary, though. you pay with your time.you pay with your attention + focus.you pay with trades +…… Continue reading a huge investment one must willingly make

remind yourself this, fam: we can be sitting together doing the exact same activity at the exact same time + still have a different experience. though we may be a lot alike, in this regard we are not the same.  you are completely different than anyone you’ll encounter today + that’s what makes your lived human experience yours. when…… Continue reading don’t get caught up in the optics

the only way you’re failing is by giving up. persist, sis. know that you may not have all of the answers right now + that’s okay. know that you can continue to improve your efforts by giving your best efforts each + every time. know that when situations don’t your way, it’s not a personal…… Continue reading hold the keys to your continued success