why you’re unable to find happiness right now

you’ll be hard pressed finding happiness, peace, love, or joy when you’re on the hunt for it. matter of fact, it will allude you simply off principle —  why would something so coveted want to settle down + manifest with the spirit of desperation? the way to receive what you’re looking for is to accept it…… Continue reading why you’re unable to find happiness right now

you’re waiting for things to change. stop.

stop waiting for things to change + make a change. though we may not have control over the current circumstances or situations, we do have the power to choose differently.be brave,be bold, + be the change you’re looking for.whatever is causing you stress + anxiety, let the obligation you’ve placed on yourself to ‘keep it…… Continue reading you’re waiting for things to change. stop.

when your mind wanders, ask yourself this

“they are being kind — what’s the motive?” “why did it have to rain/snow today?” “what did they mean by that exactly? sounds like a sneak diss” 🤔 “this moment feels too real, too good to be true.” don’t get stuck in your head, fam.moments are to be enjoyed, to be lived in — not overanalyzed. being…… Continue reading when your mind wanders, ask yourself this

the only thing that can hold you back

in this world, only one thing can hold you back, fam: that’s you. you + you alone determine your comings + your goings.it’s you that decides whether you’ll pursue or pass on the opportunity. limitations, expectations, situations — all the things you believe to hold power over you — in the grand scheme of things, don’t matter…… Continue reading the only thing that can hold you back

all achievement happens “in spite of”

those high achievers we tend to idolize are no different than we are, fam. they have fears, they have worries, + they have anxieties, too. so one may wonder:with all the stressors surrounding achieving, how do they have such high achievements under their belt? the answer is more simple than we care to admit.high achievers do…… Continue reading all achievement happens “in spite of”

here’s what confidence is + what it is not

whatever + wherever you pull your confidence from is your business, fam. it could be from a loved one, from scripture, from nature, from your inner being — idc. idc. idc.  doesn’t matter. what matters is that you carry your confidence with you wherever you go.life will life + without the confidence to move forward, you…… Continue reading here’s what confidence is + what it is not

limitations make your life better

one thing about limitations we’ve got to deeply understand is this: they aren’t bad. it’s important for us to understand limitations because they help us to elevate higher –with limited vocabulary, you can decide to read more, engage in more conversations, seek the definitions of words you encounter, + proactively learn the meanings of words for…… Continue reading limitations make your life better