Author: Phylicia

you don’t gain peace by doing something in exchange for it, you choose peace. don’t get bamboozled into thinking you have to do this or that to gain peace in your life. all you have to do is decide that peace is with you — that you are already walking in peacethat regardless of your…… Continue reading life can be complicated, uncomfortable, + uncertain

what can you do today to make a difference? well first, fam, you can do this: be you. make a difference in your life. 👤 choose to follow your heart, to deviate from the norm + to travel a different pathway take a different approach when handling a seemingly difficult situation  laugh at yourself a little more…… Continue reading if no one has said it to you today…

it’s not that you need to do more work to see results, fam. you don’t have to necessarily add to your plate of things to do + work yourself to the bone. exam your efficiency. replace what isn’t working for you now with actions that will highlight your best. your excuses, fears, anxieties, hypotheticals, + rationalizations…… Continue reading a million different ways life won’t work out for you

toss the phrase “i want” out of your vocabulary. instead, replace it with “i have”. (yes, even for the shit you do not currently feel you have in your possession).what you want is already yours, fam.further, you have everything you need to have what you desire. see beyond your current circumstances.whatever you see right now…… Continue reading there is something missing

having nothing to do is a blessing in disguise. sleeping is essential to life considering we all need it in order to survive. you know what else is essential? rest.you gotta rest, too. in that space where you have nothing formally planned, consider leaving it blank.you put forth your best efforts daily, clearly you are…… Continue reading a blessing in disguise

don’t be surprised if your recollection of past experiences is on hyper alert right now. your past doesn’t mind reminding you how wronged you felt back then.it wants you to remember how tough it was for you when shit didn’t work out.it agrees with you to give in + write off attempting the experience completely.…… Continue reading today feels different because…

compared to what you’ve already accomplished in life, what you’re currently taking on can seem minuscule or even your biggest challenge yet. so stop it. stop comparing where you’ve been to where you are now. release the urge to judge your or others abilities to do hard things based on how great or small a situation may seem to you right now. who are…… Continue reading your biggest challenge yet

you are a person of utmost value, fam. there’s no denying you are cut from the finest cloth + made with tender love + care. every detail of your personality + physical presence is crafted with love.your natural born skills, including your ability to conquer hard things, is what makes you you. even your dreams + aspirations…… Continue reading in the presence of royalty