building a strong connection with yourself helps you do this

what you’re looking for can be found within you, fam. healing your relationships begins with healing yourself, + you possess all that’s needed to get started on that journey. while many will say, phrases like “self love is all you need” or “love yourself”, being loved + appreciated outside of your own volition is also an integral part…… Continue reading building a strong connection with yourself helps you do this

do you believe you deserve more than what you’re receiving right now?

you get out of life what you’re willing to put into life, fam. worrying about what you’ll get from an encounter doesn’t increase the abundance, it actually stifles the growth. let’s be real: when you put thought + care into whatever you’re doing, the reward is always there.you aren’t doing shit to simply do shit, you are intentional…… Continue reading do you believe you deserve more than what you’re receiving right now?

unstable conditions make for the perfect storm

no matter how put together your life may be, storms will arise. some of these figurative storms, like natural storms, will arise seemingly out of no where + at the most unexpected times.some will last for a few minutes with great intensity featuring some of the worst wind, flashing with lightening streaks that light up the whole sky,…… Continue reading unstable conditions make for the perfect storm

notice how intentional + powerful this moment feels

when you find that your mind focuses strictly on what you do not have, it’s time to recalibrate, fam. focusing on what you don’t have when you have so much already + aren’t making the most of it is a waste of your time + efforts. worrying about what you cannot do is not what’s gonna catapult…… Continue reading notice how intentional + powerful this moment feels

this is what you are responsible for in your life

putting your problems off on someone else, blaming them for why you’re in the situation you’re in may feel good + justifiable in the moment; however, it does nothing to resolve the problem at hand. shifting blame isn’t how a problem is solved — solving the problem is how a problem is solved. so today i ask you: what do…… Continue reading this is what you are responsible for in your life

you’ve set the intention, now make a move

whatever you do today, know why you’re doing it. don’t do shit for the sake of doing shit, fam. move with intention + ease.even if the reason you’re moving is strictly “obedience”, know that you still chose to listen to instructions + chose to do something about your situation. intentionality requires a lot of thought + consideration.it…… Continue reading you’ve set the intention, now make a move

you think no one sees you, but people notice

if you can sit in silence + shrink yourself, you can speak boldly in front of a crowd. it sounds… odd, + doesn’t seem to correlate; however, one definitely does support the other. here’s the thing, fam:we think that by not drawing attention to ourselves that we are not drawing attention to ourselves. that’s simply not the…… Continue reading you think no one sees you, but people notice

you will understand this one day, fam

one day, instead of beating yourself up about something you wish to change about yourself, you’ll approach yourself with grace. one day, you’ll honor that you’re still learning + it’s okay to not have an answer. one day, you’ll be kinder to yourself during the learning process. one day, you’ll offer acceptance rather than passing judgement.…… Continue reading you will understand this one day, fam