Author: Phylicia

life can life so fuckin’ hard that, sometimes, you be ready to give up on your dreams. well don’t you throw in the tile yet, fam. maybe life isn’t throwing you curveballs.  maybe — just maybe, it’s teaching you how to swing + shoot for the stars. you can’t shoot for the stars unless you’re swinging for them,…… Continue reading don’t you throw in the *tile* yet

believe in your potential. really — what do you have to lose, fam? potentially, you can do some of the dopest shit you’ve ever imagined. hell, you believe in other’s potential so why not believe in yours? you entertain others sometimes solely based on their potential alone, yet you won’t give yourself the time of…… Continue reading finally be all that you aspire to be

the same energy you use to give yourself a hard time is the same energy you can use to turn your attitude around + encourage yourself. speak life over yourself, fam. counter any limiting thoughts you encounter with some hardcore truths: you can do ityou have the power to overcomeyou are willing to make a change break free,…… Continue reading as overwhelmed as you may feel right now, remember…

how will i make it through this? as disempowering as that question is, seems like we’ve all asked ourselves that same question at least once in our lives. disempowering? yes. disempowering. because that question gives off the impression that we don’t have exactly what we need to keep going. you see, the how doesn’t matter.…… Continue reading how will i make it through this?

have you cracked a smile today? have you laughed at yourself fumbling over your words?have you caught yourself humming your favorite tune?have you busted out laughing at a joke?life is serious, but it doesn’t have to be taken seriously.laugh.  live a little. get silly today.  when the moment gets too serious, go off script; two-step a…… Continue reading let the rhythm overtake you

the dope thing about joy is that it’s always there — lurking, watching, + waiting for you to acknowledge its presence. you can find it on the other side of disappointment.there is no challenge that, when met with joy, cannot transform into an accomplishment. joy can even be used to help you overcome difficulties –yes, even…… Continue reading ain’t gotta look for it when you’re living it

you already don’t want to do that thing you keep putting off. we both know that if you really wanted to do it, you’d find a way to get it done. 🤚🏾 please, save the excuses. you can “but…” + “well…” every time it’s brought it + none of that will matter. what matters is this: finding…… Continue reading experience more enjoyable moments in your life

no one’s asking you to be the best or the most talented. lean into new knowledge + decide to continue improving no matter what. when you don’t know how to do something, learn. teach yourself. have someone teach you. hell, delegate that thang!reach out to someone proficient in the skill you lack + pay them to make…… Continue reading be the best or the most talented